A Glimpse into 21st Century American Life

This short video, a promo for the book Life at Home in the Twenty-first Century, provides a science-based glimpse into 21st century life in America from the perspective of what we have in our homes. And what do have? An over-abundance of stuff, which translates to clutter when you neglect what you have or no longer care for it.

Our prosperity has filled our homes to the brim and adds stress to daily life. From a feng shui perspective, our possessions are a reflection of ourselves. They contain our energy and mirror much of what we hold deep inside. Similar to people and relationships, our “stuff” requires time and attention, areas where we often come up short.

One way to ease the burden of so much is to only bring in things that you use or love. In my home we’ve had a policy for many years that if “something big comes in, something big has to go out.” As we continue to focus on thinning things out, our home feels more clear and is easier to maintain. An increase in free space and more time are very nice bonuses.

I’m interested in your comments. What do you think?

5 Tips to Get On Track

Tips for Getting on TrackIt’s mid-January. The holidays have past. Resolutions have been made. 2013 is moving right along.

*Are you on track?

*Do you feel side-tracked or bewildered by what is or is not happening for you?

*Are you somewhere in-between?

The good news is that we have two excellent days coming up that relate to clarity: Thursday and Friday, January 17 and 18th.  If you’ve had trouble gaining traction, you feel that you haven’t been seeing things clearly, or you have an important decision to make, take advantage of this cycle. In the Eastern time zone, this helpful cycle is exact from 6:30pm Thursday, January 17th through 3:18pm Friday, January 18th.

Here are five tips to help you gain clarity and get on track:

1. Begin each day with a meditation to ground and center your energy. This can be as short as five minutes. It’s a great way to bring focus to your day. I find that action items require less time when I begin my day this way. I call it slowing down to speed up.

2. Organize your desktop or workspace. Begin with a clean slate rather than a state of disarray. Create a beneficial feng shui flow throughout your workspace.

3. Write a To Do list for the day, beginning with the most important activities. Keep it achievable. Park all extra items in a separate place. If you’d like a copy of My Daily Plan, contact me.

4. Make one of your To Do items a Personal Strategic Plan, if you don’t have one. Otherwise you risk endless action items without a clear purpose. Contact me if you’d like a short Strategic Attraction Plan outline.

5. Take a break, get some exercise, or do something fun at least once a day. Ideally, take a break every 90 minutes. You’ll be more productive.

Energy works in amazing ways. Over the years I have learned that the harder you work or push, the harder you have to work or push. The trick is to be clear about what you want, put some focused attention towards your goals while also taking concrete action steps, and also allow some time and space for pleasure, joy and fun. It’s a balancing act. Being clear about what you really want is a first step toward helping you get there.

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10 Simple Feng Shui Tips

Here are 10 simple feng shui tips that everyone can apply to help bring more ease and flow to your work and life. Many thanks to Mike Schnippering, the founder of Feng Shui at Work, for sharing.

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A Day to Honor Dad

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My Dad Celebrating his 90th Birthday

Father’s Day in the US is the third Sunday in June. The area of the bagua that relates to Dads is the Helpful People & Travel gua, the front right sector of every space when divided into a grid of nine.

This is the most yang area of the bagua. It is associated with males, the father, and heaven. Check this space before Sunday, June 17th and refresh or enhance it if you would like to strengthen your connection with “Dad” or a favorite male in your life.

A wonderful way to honor your Dad, whether living or deceased, is to place a reminder of him in this area. It might be a favorite photo, something he made or passed along to you, a reminder of activities you enjoy or enjoyed together, or any sort of a memento. Although my Dad passed away a few years, I think of him every time I use my Shaker stool or place a quilt on my quilt rack — items he carefully crafted.

If your relationship with your Dad is not favorable, consider what would bring you peace. Creating good flow and placing something meaningful or symbolic in this area may initiate a positive shift. Acceptance of the ways things are is a first step to moving through them. If your energy or that of your space is constricted or blocked, the only one you hinder is yourself.

If the males in your house need more support, enhance the Helpful People & Travel gua. Also enhance this sector if you would like to be more helpful to others or you would like to receive assistance in any area of your life. This gua is also associated with the head and brain. If you suffer from migraine headaches or any head or brain related problems, address this sector of your space. Checked for blocked energy. Remove clutter or anything that is broken. If you have door, window, plumbing or electrical problems, take some steps to correct them … even if it just means recognizing and accepting them vs. ignoring them or hoping they will go away.

Helpful People selflessly provide support to others and show up at just the right time.  They can be friends, neighbors, volunteers, teachers, mentors and professionals. Helpful People can also show up as unseen heavenly or angelic help that arrives at unexpected times and in unexpected ways. If you are in business, your helpful people are your customers and clients.

This area represents a gateway for philanthropy and random acts of kindness. Each of us is genuinely a helpful person when we give to others and expect nothing in return. When we assist others, help also returns to us in unseen and unexpected ways.

From a feng shui perspective, the Helpful People and Travel gua is energized by the Metal element. Metal energy is clear, focused, and organized. When it is out of balance (too much or too little) it can show up as anxiety and anguish, a lack of focus or purpose, sloppy work or behavior, being overly sharp, critical or judgmental and even being obsessive, sarcastic or aloof. Creating balance in this area can bring focus to your life. Earth energy strengthens the area if Metal is weak and Water energy dulls the sharp edges of overly strong Metal.

If you’d like to focus on travel … either do less or more, balance or enhance this area of your space.

As in all areas of your home, remove all clutter and fix everything that requires repair or maintenance. Work with this gua if you would also like to:

  • have more close friends or attract support from others
  • be more selfless, supportive, generous and compassionate
  • be more philanthropic
  • visit particular places, travel internationally or on business
  • receive more heavenly or spiritual support
  • experience more synchronicity
  • complete unfinished business with your father or authority figures
  • develop leadership in yourself or others
  • have more responsibility
  • eliminate migraine headaches
  • omit problems with your head, brain, skull, lungs or breathing
  • clear swelling, broken bones, skin, heart or elimination disorders

The feng shui color for the Helpful People area is gray. You can also use white, yellow and light colors or any pastel shade and a little black. If your room is another color, enhance it using one of these colors. This sector also benefits from the placement of crystals, gemstones and pictures or symbols of heavenly objects, spiritual guides and helpers. It is a wonderful place to hang a picture of any male who represents a helpful person or someone who can use more help in their life. Energize this area by including circular shapes or round objects and items made from any metal, such as a six-rod metal wind chime.

Enhance the Helpful People of your space in whatever way works best for you and watch how the results unfold in your life. Last week we replaced a screen door on our front porch. It happens to lie in our Helpful People & Travel gua. It turns out to be nice synchronicity with Father’s Day.

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Activate Creative Thinking at Work

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Steep Stairs at the Entrance Can Indicate an Uphill Climb Every Day!

Do you realize that you can tap into the energy of your environment to facilitate creative thinking and problem solving at work? You can.

From a feng shui perspective, the front left sector of every space relates to the energy of Knowledge, Wisdom and Personal Growth. In a work setting, this area relates to knowing what to do, training employees, coming up with creative solutions, and solving problems. “Every space” means your entire work setting, each room in your workplace, and the land itself.

The front left sector or corner is an ideal location for a meditation space. Providing employees space for reflection and quiet time can be a very effective investment. Other uses include Research and Development, Training and Education, Market Research, and a reference library. This does not mean that other uses of this space will not work. Other uses can work very well as long as the energy is vibrant and flowing smoothly.

If you would like to activate creative thinking or re-energize problem solving in your business, check the condition of this area. Make sure that doors, windows, plumbing an electric are in excellent working order. Remove paper piles, clutter, blockages, and dead or dying plants. Notice the energy of the art, pictures, or images on the walls. What messages do they send about your business? Is there a more effective message that you would like to display or publicize?

If your main entrance is located on the left front side, it falls within the Knowledge and Wisdom gua. Make sure that you have a clear path to the front door and that it is in excellent working condition. Check the lights and bell or buzzer.

You can re-energize and/or balance the energy of the Knowledge area using the colors blue, green and black. Introducing some earth (yellow, brown) or fire (red) tones, along with square or triangular shapes can also be helpful. A square black welcome mat could be an effective addition for main doors in this area.

When working with the energy of your environment, a small change can go a long way. What is most important is that each area feels great and stimulates the activity that occurs there. When in doubt, take some pictures and study them. You often see things in photos that you miss when you walk by in person. Often after 30 days in a space we tune out and stop seeing piles of clutter and areas of low or stuck energy. Someone new to the space may notice them right away though.

May is an excellent month to refresh this area and re-energize your creative thinking and problem solving abilities or those of your workplace.

Cultivating Wisdom: The Knowledge Gua

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Create a spot for contemplation.

The feng shui bagua correlates your life issues to your space. When divided into a grid of 9 sectors, the front left corner is known as the Knowledge gua. It relates to the energy of contemplation, self-cultivation and wisdom. It’s about introspection, knowing the right thing to do, and being in touch with your deep inner, spiritual self.  The space can be your land, your house, your office or workspace, or any room at home or work. It can also be your desktop, your car or wherever you are. How does this part of your home look and feel? What room is located here? How is it used and what shape is it in? Are you aware of any particular patterns that are encoded here?

The front left is an ideal area for a study, library, sitting room or office. Family rooms and bedrooms are great here too. Gardens and meditation spaces provide wonderful support for this area outside. Bathrooms, laundry rooms, closets and storage areas located in this area may require some balancing. If this area is blocked or missing from your space altogether, adjust the knowledge corner of every room throughout your house, particularly the master bedroom.

The Knowledge gua relates to the Mountain trigram in the I Ching. Years ago sages and wisdom seekers would go to “the mountain” to clear their heads and become enlightened. Using the system of the Five Elements, this area is relates to Earth energy. You can strengthen the subtle energy of this space using blue (also some black and green), heavy, grounding furniture, square shapes, mountain pictures or images of churches, temples, holy sites or a symbol of stillness.

As you set clear intentions, cultivate a light attitude and go easy on yourself. Notice what comes up for you and what you see within your home or workspace. Your space mirrors your inner self. How do the patterns reflect your life?

Clear away clutter and enhance the the front left corner of your space if you:

  • Want to tap into your intuition
  • Would like to develop your spirituality
  • Desire more to connect with your deep, inner self
  • Would like to develop or strengthen a meditation practice
  • Want to become more heart-based or heart-centered
  • Are clearing out inner clutter or emotional turmoil
  • Have low back pain
  • Are experiencing problems with your hands, back or shoulders
  • Don’t know what to do or often feel scattered
  • Feel disconnected from your self, family or friends
  • Feel that you have no empty space
  • Do not know how to be yourself
  • Don’t know who you really are
  • Need more self care

The Knowledge gua works in unison with its diagonal opposite (back right corner), the Relationship and Partnership gua. I’ll write about that area in a separate post.

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Tapping Growth Potential in Business

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Purple Enhances Prosperity.

According to the feng shui bagua, the back left of every space relates to the energy of wealth and abundance. This is a particularly important area, as it energetically relates to power and influence.

The condition of the space as well as who occupies the space has a significant impact on the success of the business. It is an ideal location for the CEO or top executive. It is also a very good place to locate the Accounting office or any person or team related to money, payroll, or bonuses.

Pay attention to who sits in this area. Observe relationships and the level of influence the person or team has on the business. Sometimes the most powerful person is not the most important.

Balance or energize the back left sector (when divided into a grid of 9 ) of your business or office to:

  • Grow, increase sales and profits, expand market share
  • Strengthen banking relationships
  • Be more philanthropic or community driven

Take a look at this quick checklist for enhancing spaces.

If you have time, energize the prosperity area of your business prior to the April 21 new moon while setting an intention for growth or abundance. Then notice what shifts, beginning about two weeks later, with the May 5 full moon. New moon energy is about planting seeds of intention. Full moon energy is about the culmination of seeds previously planted. If you are a bit skeptical, suspend your disbelief, take action, and see what happens.

I’d love to hear about any adjustments you make and what you notice as a result.

Create Opportunities for Business Growth

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Create a Welcoming Business Entrance

Have you ever walked into an office that radiates success? Businesses, like people, have a personality and energy that is uniquely their own. Employees often spend more time at work than at home. For that reason, management that acknowledges the key role that a good work environment plays in productivity, problem solving, employee retention, and in ultimately improving the bottom line, has much to gain.

The Career and Opportunities area of the feng shui bagua relates to creating opportunities for your business as well as your employees. Energetically this sector also relates to listening and communication skills. This is the center front area of all of your business spaces: the land, the building and every room in the building. Balance or energize this area for:

  • Improving market position
  • Setting a new direction or journey
  • Attracting qualified new employees
  • Creating clearly defined business and marketing plans
  • Clarifying your business’s journey or position in the market
  • Providing appropriate and relevant career options for your employees.

Here’s a quick checklist to help you out:

1. Clutter? Remove it, including dead plants, forgotten piles.

2. Doors and entrances? They should be well maintained and open easily and fully.

3. Windows? They should be clean and in excellent operation.

4. Plumbing and electric? Correct all leaks and malfunctioning electrical outlets.

5. Furniture? It should be clean and in excellent condition

6. Visual cues? Uplifting and inspiring.

What you, your employees, and customers see does matter. More important is how everyone feels when they spend time in this space. Your body reads the subtle cues that can support your efforts or detract from what you and your business are all about. Spaces that are in good shape contribute positive and supportive energy to your business. Spaces that are unkempt, cluttered, or in varying degrees of disarray are spaces where everyone has to work harder to make things happen.

Two weeks ago I wrote about an Executive Director of a nonprofit agency who cleaned her office and attracted a much-needed grant. Recently she informed me that a second grant, considerably larger than the first, has also come in. Prior to this she and her organization were struggling to stay afloat. If you would like to improve your business, suspend any disbelief and re-vitalize your office space, either all at once or a sector at a time. Then refocus your attention and notice what happens. Things will shift; most likely for the better.

If you’d like your business to shift even more, make it a company priority. Select a day and direct everyone to toss out, repair, recycle, or re-purpose, everything they no longer use or need. Provide trash cans and recycle containers. Friday’s are great for this, enabling everyone to return to a refreshed, revitalized, and revitalized workspace on Monday.

Contact me for a complimentary 15 minute consultation if you’d like to learn more.

Clearing Clutter Attracts Grant Money

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Wealth Office Before

A month ago I consulted with the Executive Director of a nonprofit agency that depends on grants to fund its programs. Things were tight and she wanted some help attracting grant money. People and programs had been cut in recent years and the agency was facing more cuts if revenue did not materialize. She was feeling stressed about the situation. At the time, the Executive Director was occupying the Partnership area of the office suite. She has a large, wooden, executive-style desk that is in excellent condition. Her executive style chair provides solid support, as does the wall behind her. She was also sitting facing one of her favorable directions.

Wealth Office After

Wealth Office After

Meanwhile, the Wealth office was unoccupied and filled with clutter. Although the Executive Director used to be located here, she moved her office a few years ago and unconsciously seated another employee in the Wealth office.  This employee was laid off when money dried up previously. Since then the office has been used to store piles of paper, unsuccessful grant applications, office equipment that was not being used and more. The space was physically blocked with materials that were not moving the business forward and the energy felt low and chaotic. The Wealth area reflected the agency in general: stuck.

I recommended that the Wealth office be cleared of all clutter and for the Executive Director to re-occupy it.  It was a simple change with a profound result. One grant has since been confirmed and she will learn the final amount for another one next week. With revenue flowing again she is also feeling more confident. In the coming weeks she will prepare a strategic plan for her agency, which will include attracting a grant writer.

Take a look at the before and after photos.  What a difference clearing clutter can make! Which space would you prefer to occupy?

Are the incoming grants a mere coincidence? Maybe, but probably not. In my experience,  setting an intention, believing it can happen, and taking inspired action to move you forward is a model for successful outcomes.

Do you have a similar story or experience? If so, send it along! I’d love to hear it.

Attract the Job You Want: Mind Over Matter

The 60 Minutes segment Trapped in Unemployment emphasizes the importance of changing your mindset as a means of returning to the workforce, particularly if you are one of the long term unemployed. Changing your mindset helps you to shift your energy and bring you into alignment with what you really want. It’s a very effective “deliberate creation” and Law of Attraction technique. Simply stated, we empower and strengthen whatever we give attention to. I highly recommend that being EMPLOYED become part of the new mindset vs. hanging onto the story of being unemployed. As difficult as the situation is, the longer you keep your unemployment story alive, the harder it will be to get back to work. All other issues aside, this is a situation of mind over matter. You have to align your energy with what you want, in order for it to happen. Align your energy with being EMPLOYED.

It also helps to bring the energy of your space into alignment with your new mindset. According the the principles of feng shui, there is a specific area in your home and every room in your home that correlates with career and opportunities. This area is the front center of your home or office when you divide it into a grid of nine sectors, similar to a tic-tac-toe board. This is the Career sector in the feng shui bagua and it is the area to energize a new job. You can place a symbol that represents what you’d like to be doing. You can also write an affirmation about having a job and place it in an envelope somewhere in this area. Or just create flow by adding a feature that introduces movement (such as a water feature) or an object that shifts the energy (chi). If your front door falls in this sector, make sure it is in great shape and everything is working, including the doorbell and outdoor lights.

Vision Boards are another effective deliberate creation tool. Get a poster board and place pictures or images of the companies you’d love to work at or any of the jobs you’d love to have. Fill in additional details that relate to money, location, ease of commute … anything and everything you can think of.

I have summarized these tips and added a few more below to help you shift your energy and attract the job you want:

1. Visualize and energize being EMPLOYED rather than unemployed.

2. Create a vision and a Vision Board that represents the work you’d love to be doing.

3. Clear, clean and refresh the front center area of your home and the front center area of every room in your home. Pay particular attention to overstuffed closets and piles that have been sitting around for a while. Fix or remove anything that is broken. Eliminate all clutter.

4. Re-energize your front door. Remove all debris and correct any maintenance problems. Perhaps give it a fresh coat of paint.

5. Place an image or a symbol about being employed or doing work you love in the center front of your home and/or office.

6. Clutter-clear your office and computer files. Overstuffed bookcases and file drawers snuff out new opportunities. The same goes for excess computer files and email.  Release everything that you no longer need to create space for the new.

7. Express thanks in advance for your new job. This is a technique that really works! Use positive, present tense language, just as if you have the job now. Visualize it. Be grateful for it. Write statements of gratitude and appreciation every day until your job arrives.

8. Believe in yourself and you ability to easily rejoin the workforce. Go for it!

A special thank you to Bea Fields for bringing the 60 Minutes segment to my attention!